Boundaries: only close friends can call me Max ( call me error or gregory or drew ,,
ask to dm, frq, and @ , ttgs okay and very appreciated!
no spam @ unless we are close friends!
please ask before venting!! i am okay with venting and comforting but please ask beforehand i will almost always say yes esp if we are close <33
do not ask for my age unless we're close friends! its private for personal comfort and general safety, so please do not leak or share it. i am comfortable with any ages or age range interacting but please dont be weird or inappropriate!
do not use fem terms or prns on me even as a joke. do not call me 'doll' or anything similar.
do not call me insults or rude or degrading names even as a joke!!
do not use slurs around me! the f slur is okay (and i say it myself!!), but no others.
do not talk about politics to me, you'll be blocked.
dont tell me you "hate men" or be misandrist (or sexist at all.) near me and if you say shit like that in general dni and ill block you, especially if you disclude me from men ?? im a boy and your weird!
dont make "kys" jokes to me. "kms" jokes are okay!
dont make fat jokes to or about me.
dont be mean. playfully or teasing is okay but dont go too far please!!
i can struggle with responding because of my mental state and i get drained easy so please be warned especially if we arent that close! do not force or pressure me to respond fast.
ON THIS!! i also struggle a LOT with responding to a lot of videos tiktoks or reels so pleas be very patient on that!! and i may reply to them in sections as its easier :(
i also am very socially anxious and i struggle with texting first!!!!!!!! if you talk about me TELL AND SHOW ME !!! or dont talk about me at all. (im serious i will block people if i find out they talked about me to others without me knowing or telling me I DONT CARE!! if its positive or negative it makes me uncomfortable and paranoid regardless.)
THIS ALSO GOES FOR ADDING ME TO THINGS! like bios and websites or making posts about me TELL ME!!! and also if you change or add stuff to my profile !! like nicknames or notes and stuff please ^^
i overthink a lot and am sensitive and i can struggle to communicate or express my feelings but i will always try to, so please be patient and gentle with me!!!
pleasee tell me if anything i do or say makes you upset or uncomfortable at all!! i struggle with telling a lot on how i come off and other peoples tones in general but i never mean to make anyone upset or uncomfortable !! on this aspect also feel free and i encourage you to ask me to use ttgs if you dont understand my tone or ask me if you are worried im upset!! i wont get mad <33
i block incredibly freely.Please do: ASK TO MATCH!! i loveveveeee matching pfps bios statuses ANYTHING!!! call me he/him and boy and masc stuff i love it so much, CALL ME NICKNAMES AND PET NAMES!!
I LOVE BEING CALLED CUTE!! its my favorite compliment / name I LOVEVEV ITT!!
COMPLIMENNTING IS SOSOSOSO OKAY AND I LOVEVEV GENDER AFFIRMING PET NAMES!!! and flirting too is also okay BUT PLEASE USE TTGS WHEN FLIRTING!! i platonically flirt with my friends but usually only when they start it first!! and dont go too far or too much with the sexual jokes please!
I DO say "i love you (so much)" to my friends platonically !!!! but I usually don't start saying it until they say it first (I do this with a lot of things actually! As well as other forms of affection, I wait until they initiate it because I get unsure), but if I do and you don't like that then just tell me and I will avoid saying that to you :D
I ADOREOEOEE NICKNAMES SOSOSO MUCH FEEL FREE TO GIVE ME NICKNAMES!!!
BE AFFECTIONATE WITH ME!!! i loveveveveve being affectionate and i am incredibly to my friends especially if they reciprocate!!!
match my energy spam me if we're friends text me while im gone update me about stuff small yap and rant to me!!
ASK TO PLAY GAMES OR WATCH STUFF OR JUST HANG OUT TOGETHERR!!! i love playing games with people or watching stuff together I REALLY LOVE CALLING!!
i can only sleep call with zero!!Alsososoo about intials / a list of my friends names in my websites or profiles :: the order of names isn't how close we are or how much you mean to me it's almost always in order of who I've known the longest to who I've known the shortest!!! I notice a lot of people organize it as closest to less close, so I just wanna state that thats not how I organize it!! my timezone is CST :D and i sleep a lot..